Like it or not, online dating is here to stay, and can be a fantastic way to meet people, done correctly! Australian singles use online dating and social networking site to meet new people.
I’m not going to give you any statistics, because I am one of them. Online Dating is how I met my wife. After years of Online Dating on many different sites, I finally found my match on RSVP. Since we met its been three years happily in love and married. Amazing, right? If you’re saying to yourself – phew! I have a shot! – You’re right. You do. However, that being said, it’s not as simple as “winking” at someone you’re attracted to, or sending a friendly email / invite for drinks.
Online dating, actually dating in general, is a process – a process to be taken seriously. You should take this search for a mate as seriously as you would take a job search and approach it with the same level of strategy and planning. Your dream guy or gal is probably not going to deliver your pizza or spontaneously appear next to you in the grocery line. There are four crucial steps you need to perfect to make it to the actual “in person” date.
First, you need a very effective profile and pictures of yourself.
Second, you need to learn to write an effective email that lets someone know
that you’re interested in them and why they should be interested in you.
Third, you need to have a good phone call that reaffirms everything they were hoping for – the first live contact.
Finally, you need to have a stellar first date that lands you a second date.
And believe it or not, if you do these things right, you’ll find that not only are you choosing better people to contact, you’re writing better emails, you’re enjoying get-to-know you phone calls and you’re having better dates...AND you’re being your true and wonderful self throughout.
So, this eBook is not based on statistics, it’s based on myself and my experience, the numerous numbers of dating, apps, and websites I tried. I tried them all, eHarmony, Oasis, Rsvp, Plenty of Fish, and Tinder to name a few.